diff --git a/control_lifecycle_test.go b/control_lifecycle_test.go
index 6c0387b6..7ffbf18a 100644
--- a/control_lifecycle_test.go
+++ b/control_lifecycle_test.go
@@ -148,7 +148,7 @@ func (c *fakeConn) Rebind() error                             { c.rebinds++; ret
 func (c *fakeConn) LocalAddr() (netip.AddrPort, error)        { return netip.AddrPort{}, nil }
 func (c *fakeConn) ListenOut(_ udp.EncReader, _ func()) error { return nil }
 func (c *fakeConn) WriteTo(_ []byte, _ netip.AddrPort) error  { return nil }
-func (c *fakeConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, _ []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
+func (c *fakeConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, _ []netip.AddrPort, _ func(int, error)) (int, error) {
 	return len(bufs), nil
 }
 func (c *fakeConn) ReloadConfig(_ *config.C, _ *config.Reload) {}
diff --git a/e2e/dual_stack_roam_test.go b/e2e/dual_stack_roam_test.go
index 9511d589..9dedec2f 100644
--- a/e2e/dual_stack_roam_test.go
+++ b/e2e/dual_stack_roam_test.go
@@ -23,15 +23,10 @@ import (
 //
 //	go test -tags e2e_testing -v -run TestDualStackRoamToV4Only ./e2e/
 func TestDualStackRoamToV4Only(t *testing.T) {
-	for _, tc := range []struct {
-		name      string
-		meSends   bool
-		themSends bool
-		rebind    bool
-		lhOverV4  bool
-	}{
+	for _, tc := range []dualStackRoamCase{
 		{name: "both send", meSends: true, themSends: true},
 		{name: "both send, rebind", meSends: true, themSends: true, rebind: true},
+		{name: "both send, two tunnels", meSends: true, themSends: true, simultaneous: true},
 		{name: "laptop sends", meSends: true},
 		{name: "peer sends", themSends: true},
 		{name: "peer sends, rebind", themSends: true, rebind: true},
@@ -39,12 +34,25 @@ func TestDualStackRoamToV4Only(t *testing.T) {
 	} {
 		t.Run(tc.name, func(t *testing.T) {
 			t.Parallel()
-			fwd, rev := measureDualStackRoam(t, tc.meSends, tc.themSends, tc.rebind, tc.lhOverV4)
+			fwd, rev := measureDualStackRoam(t, tc)
 			t.Logf("RESULT %-24s laptop->peer %-9v peer->laptop %-9v", tc.name, fmtRecovery(fwd), fmtRecovery(rev))
 		})
 	}
 }
 
+type dualStackRoamCase struct {
+	name string
+	// meSends and themSends say who keeps traffic flowing after the move
+	meSends, themSends bool
+	// rebind fires RebindUDPServer on the move, as the darwin network change monitor would
+	rebind bool
+	// lhOverV4 forms the lighthouse tunnel over IPv4 at the office, so the move does not break it
+	lhOverV4 bool
+	// simultaneous has both sides initiate at once at the office, which can leave each side a different primary
+	// tunnel for the other
+	simultaneous bool
+}
+
 func fmtRecovery(d time.Duration) string {
 	if d == 0 {
 		return "never"
@@ -84,7 +92,7 @@ func newDualStackNode(ca cert.Certificate, caKey []byte, name, vpnNet string, v4
 
 // measureDualStackRoam returns how long after the move the first packet made it laptop->peer and peer->laptop, zero
 // for a direction that never recovered.
-func measureDualStackRoam(t *testing.T, meSends, themSends, rebind, lhOverV4 bool) (time.Duration, time.Duration) {
+func measureDualStackRoam(t *testing.T, tc dualStackRoamCase) (time.Duration, time.Duration) {
 	t.Helper()
 	ca, _, caKey, _ := cert_test.NewTestCaCert(cert.Version2, cert.Curve_CURVE25519, time.Now(), time.Now().Add(10*time.Minute), nil, nil, []string{})
 
@@ -131,16 +139,24 @@ func measureDualStackRoam(t *testing.T, meSends, themSends, rebind, lhOverV4 boo
 	// for a static_host_map that only lists the lighthouse's IPv4 address.
 	officeV6 := func(p *udp.Packet, _ *nebula.Control) router.ExitType {
 		lhTraffic := p.To == lhV4 || p.To == lhV6 || p.From == lhV4 || p.From == lhV6
-		if p.To.Addr().Is4() == (lhOverV4 && lhTraffic) {
+		if p.To.Addr().Is4() == (tc.lhOverV4 && lhTraffic) {
 			return router.KeepRouting
 		}
 		return router.Drop
 	}
 	r.RouteForAllExitFuncOrTimeout(time.Second, officeV6)
 
+	// One side at a time, so both sides hold the same single tunnel, unless the case wants them racing
 	me.c.InjectTunPacket(BuildTunUDPPacket(them.vpnAddr, 80, me.vpnAddr, 80, []byte("establish")))
+	if !tc.simultaneous {
+		r.RouteForAllExitFuncOrTimeout(time.Second, officeV6)
+	}
 	them.c.InjectTunPacket(BuildTunUDPPacket(me.vpnAddr, 80, them.vpnAddr, 80, []byte("establish")))
-	r.RouteForAllExitFuncOrTimeout(time.Second*2, officeV6)
+	r.RouteForAllExitFuncOrTimeout(time.Second, officeV6)
+	if tc.simultaneous && me.c.GetHostmapIndexCount() < 3 {
+		// A tunnel to the lighthouse and two to the peer, or the race did not happen
+		t.Logf("simultaneous handshakes settled on a single tunnel this run")
+	}
 	drainTun(me.c)
 	drainTun(them.c)
 
@@ -152,7 +168,7 @@ func measureDualStackRoam(t *testing.T, meSends, themSends, rebind, lhOverV4 boo
 	}{
 		{"laptop->peer", me.c, them.vpnAddr, true},
 		{"peer->laptop", them.c, me.vpnAddr, true},
-		{"laptop->lh", me.c, lh.vpnAddr, !lhOverV4},
+		{"laptop->lh", me.c, lh.vpnAddr, !tc.lhOverV4},
 	} {
 		hi := want.c.GetHostInfoByVpnAddr(want.vpnAddr, false)
 		if hi == nil {
@@ -170,7 +186,7 @@ func measureDualStackRoam(t *testing.T, meSends, themSends, rebind, lhOverV4 boo
 	r.AddRoute(hotel.Addr(), hotel.Port(), me.c)
 
 	start := time.Now()
-	if rebind {
+	if tc.rebind {
 		me.c.RebindUDPServer()
 	}
 
@@ -188,10 +204,10 @@ func measureDualStackRoam(t *testing.T, meSends, themSends, rebind, lhOverV4 boo
 			case <-stop:
 				return
 			case <-tick.C:
-				if meSends {
+				if tc.meSends {
 					me.c.InjectTunPacket(BuildTunUDPPacket(them.vpnAddr, 80, me.vpnAddr, 80, []byte("retry")))
 				}
-				if themSends {
+				if tc.themSends {
 					them.c.InjectTunPacket(BuildTunUDPPacket(me.vpnAddr, 80, them.vpnAddr, 80, []byte("retry")))
 				}
 			}
@@ -200,7 +216,7 @@ func measureDualStackRoam(t *testing.T, meSends, themSends, rebind, lhOverV4 boo
 
 	// When only one side has traffic, the other direction recovering is a bonus we still report but do not wait for
 	done := func() bool {
-		return (!meSends || fwd.Load() != 0) && (!themSends || rev.Load() != 0)
+		return (!tc.meSends || fwd.Load() != 0) && (!tc.themSends || rev.Load() != 0)
 	}
 	r.RouteForAllExitFuncOrTimeout(time.Second*90, func(p *udp.Packet, _ *nebula.Control) router.ExitType {
 		if p.To == officeV4 || p.To == officeV6Addr {
diff --git a/hostmap.go b/hostmap.go
index 60505cc2..5f0838c2 100644
--- a/hostmap.go
+++ b/hostmap.go
@@ -776,7 +776,8 @@ const unreachableProbeInterval = time.Second
 // after moving to a network without that address family. Sends a test packet to every other remote we know for this
 // host: the first one that arrives roams the peer over to wherever we are now, and its reply roams us onto that path.
 func (i *HostInfo) remoteUnreachable(ifce *Interface, dead netip.AddrPort) {
-	if i.remotes == nil || i.ConnectionState == nil {
+	if i.remotes == nil || i.ConnectionState == nil || i.GetRemote() != dead {
+		// Nothing to probe with, or we already moved on from the remote that failed
 		return
 	}
 
diff --git a/inside.go b/inside.go
index f79702e6..a26e0031 100644
--- a/inside.go
+++ b/inside.go
@@ -215,7 +215,7 @@ func (f *Interface) sendInsideMessage(hostinfo *HostInfo, pkt tio.Packet, nb []b
 				return nil
 			}
 
-			sendBatch.Commit(toSend, relayHostInfo.GetRemote())
+			sendBatch.Commit(toSend, relayHostInfo.GetRemote(), relayHostInfo.localIndexId)
 			return nil
 		})
 		if err != nil {
@@ -233,7 +233,7 @@ func (f *Interface) sendInsideMessage(hostinfo *HostInfo, pkt tio.Packet, nb []b
 			return nil
 		}
 
-		sendBatch.Commit(out, remote)
+		sendBatch.Commit(out, remote, hostinfo.localIndexId)
 		return nil
 	})
 	if err != nil {
diff --git a/interface.go b/interface.go
index e229f52a..6ed68ec5 100644
--- a/interface.go
+++ b/interface.go
@@ -495,7 +495,8 @@ func (f *Interface) listenIn(queue tio.Queue, i int) {
 
 // flushSendBatch drains sb to the underlay and accounts for anything it could not deliver. A shortfall means
 // specific destinations were undeliverable (a stale remote, a reject rule), which the backend logs per peer at
-// debug; here it is only a counter, so one unreachable peer cannot spam a log line per batch.
+// debug; here it is only a counter, so one unreachable peer cannot spam a log line per batch. Tunnels whose remote
+// we no longer have a route to go looking for another path.
 func (f *Interface) flushSendBatch(sb *batch.SendBatch, q int) {
 	queued := sb.Len()
 	written, err := sb.Flush()
@@ -505,6 +506,23 @@ func (f *Interface) flushSendBatch(sb *batch.SendBatch, q int) {
 	if dropped := queued - written; dropped > 0 {
 		f.metricTxDropped.Inc(int64(dropped))
 	}
+
+	// Packets are tagged with the local index of the tunnel they belong to. A tunnel's packets tend to fail together,
+	// so skip straight past a repeat of the one before.
+	var last batch.Failure
+	for i, fail := range sb.Failures() {
+		if i > 0 && fail.Tag == last.Tag && fail.Dst == last.Dst {
+			continue
+		}
+		last = fail
+
+		if !udp.IsUnreachable(fail.Err) {
+			continue
+		}
+		if hostinfo := f.hostMap.QueryIndex(fail.Tag); hostinfo != nil {
+			hostinfo.remoteUnreachable(f, fail.Dst)
+		}
+	}
 }
 
 func (f *Interface) RegisterConfigChangeCallbacks(c *config.C) {
diff --git a/overlay/batch/tx_batch.go b/overlay/batch/tx_batch.go
index 4f6f7da2..23dfca13 100644
--- a/overlay/batch/tx_batch.go
+++ b/overlay/batch/tx_batch.go
@@ -6,7 +6,14 @@ const SendBatchCap = 128
 
 // batchWriter is the minimal subset of udp.Conn needed by SendBatch to flush.
 type batchWriter interface {
-	WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error)
+	WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, failed func(i int, err error)) (int, error)
+}
+
+// Failure is a packet the underlay would not send, with the tag it was committed under
+type Failure struct {
+	Tag uint32
+	Dst netip.AddrPort
+	Err error
 }
 
 // SendBatch accumulates encrypted UDP packets and flushes them via WriteBatch.
@@ -16,17 +23,29 @@ type SendBatch struct {
 	out   batchWriter
 	bufs  [][]byte
 	dsts  []netip.AddrPort
+	tags  []uint32
 	arena *Arena
+
+	failures []Failure
+	// recordFailure is bound once so handing it to WriteBatch does not allocate on every Flush
+	recordFailure func(i int, err error)
 }
 
 // NewSendBatch makes a SendBatch with batchCap slots and an arenaSize byte buffer for slices to back those slots
 func NewSendBatch(out batchWriter, batchCap, arenaSize int) *SendBatch {
-	return &SendBatch{
+	b := &SendBatch{
 		out:   out,
 		bufs:  make([][]byte, 0, batchCap),
 		dsts:  make([]netip.AddrPort, 0, batchCap),
+		tags:  make([]uint32, 0, batchCap),
 		arena: NewArena(arenaSize),
 	}
+	b.recordFailure = b.failed
+	return b
+}
+
+func (b *SendBatch) failed(i int, err error) {
+	b.failures = append(b.failures, Failure{Tag: b.tags[i], Dst: b.dsts[i], Err: err})
 }
 
 func (b *SendBatch) Reserve(sz int) []byte {
@@ -38,22 +57,35 @@ func (b *SendBatch) Reserve(sz int) []byte {
 // bounding how long the first packet of a large read batch waits.
 func (b *SendBatch) Len() int { return len(b.bufs) }
 
-func (b *SendBatch) Commit(pkt []byte, dst netip.AddrPort) {
+// Commit queues pkt for dst. tag comes back in Failures if the underlay refuses the packet, so the caller can tell
+// whose packet it was.
+func (b *SendBatch) Commit(pkt []byte, dst netip.AddrPort, tag uint32) {
 	b.bufs = append(b.bufs, pkt)
 	b.dsts = append(b.dsts, dst)
+	b.tags = append(b.tags, tag)
 }
 
 // Flush writes every queued packet and reports how many actually went out. A short count means some destinations
-// were undeliverable; the batch is drained either way.
+// were undeliverable, Failures says which; the batch is drained either way.
 func (b *SendBatch) Flush() (int, error) {
+	clear(b.failures)
+	b.failures = b.failures[:0]
+
 	var err error
 	written := 0
 	if len(b.bufs) > 0 {
-		written, err = b.out.WriteBatch(b.bufs, b.dsts)
+		written, err = b.out.WriteBatch(b.bufs, b.dsts, b.recordFailure)
 	}
 	clear(b.bufs)
 	b.bufs = b.bufs[:0]
 	b.dsts = b.dsts[:0]
+	b.tags = b.tags[:0]
 	b.arena.Reset()
 	return written, err
 }
+
+// Failures returns every packet the last Flush could not send, in the order they were committed. Valid until the
+// next Flush.
+func (b *SendBatch) Failures() []Failure {
+	return b.failures
+}
diff --git a/overlay/batch/tx_batch_test.go b/overlay/batch/tx_batch_test.go
index aad16e9c..7e5aa024 100644
--- a/overlay/batch/tx_batch_test.go
+++ b/overlay/batch/tx_batch_test.go
@@ -1,7 +1,9 @@
 package batch
 
 import (
+	"errors"
 	"net/netip"
+	"slices"
 	"testing"
 )
 
@@ -10,7 +12,7 @@ type fakeBatchWriter struct {
 	addrs []netip.AddrPort
 }
 
-func (w *fakeBatchWriter) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
+func (w *fakeBatchWriter) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, _ func(int, error)) (int, error) {
 	// Snapshot — SendBatch.Flush nils its slot pointers right after WriteBatch
 	// returns, so tests must capture data before that happens.
 	w.bufs = make([][]byte, len(bufs))
@@ -34,7 +36,7 @@ func TestSendBatchReserveCommitFlush(t *testing.T) {
 			t.Fatalf("slot %d: cap=%d want 32", i, cap(slot))
 		}
 		pkt := append(slot[:0], byte(i), byte(i+1), byte(i+2))
-		b.Commit(pkt, ap)
+		b.Commit(pkt, ap, 0)
 	}
 	if _, err := b.Flush(); err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("Flush: %v", err)
@@ -75,7 +77,7 @@ func TestSendBatchSlotsDoNotOverlap(t *testing.T) {
 	for i := range 3 {
 		s := b.Reserve(8)
 		pkt := append(s[:0], byte(0xA0+i), byte(0xB0+i))
-		b.Commit(pkt, ap)
+		b.Commit(pkt, ap, 0)
 	}
 	if _, err := b.Flush(); err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("Flush: %v", err)
@@ -96,11 +98,11 @@ func TestSendBatchGrowPreservesCommitted(t *testing.T) {
 
 	s1 := b.Reserve(4)
 	pkt1 := append(s1[:0], 0x11, 0x22, 0x33, 0x44)
-	b.Commit(pkt1, ap)
+	b.Commit(pkt1, ap, 0)
 
 	s2 := b.Reserve(8) // exceeds remaining cap, triggers grow
 	pkt2 := append(s2[:0], 0xA, 0xB, 0xC, 0xD, 0xE)
-	b.Commit(pkt2, ap)
+	b.Commit(pkt2, ap, 0)
 
 	// pkt1 must still be intact even though backing reallocated.
 	if pkt1[0] != 0x11 || pkt1[3] != 0x44 {
@@ -120,3 +122,68 @@ func TestSendBatchGrowPreservesCommitted(t *testing.T) {
 		t.Errorf("second packet on the wire: %x", fw.bufs[1])
 	}
 }
+
+// failingBatchWriter refuses every packet whose first byte is in refuse
+type failingBatchWriter struct {
+	refuse map[byte]error
+}
+
+func (w *failingBatchWriter) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, _ []netip.AddrPort, failed func(int, error)) (int, error) {
+	written := 0
+	for i, b := range bufs {
+		if err, ok := w.refuse[b[0]]; ok {
+			failed(i, err)
+			continue
+		}
+		written++
+	}
+	return written, nil
+}
+
+func TestSendBatchReportsFailedTags(t *testing.T) {
+	errNoRoute := errors.New("no route")
+	fw := &failingBatchWriter{refuse: map[byte]error{2: errNoRoute, 3: errNoRoute}}
+
+	b := NewSendBatch(fw, 4, 64)
+
+	dsts := []netip.AddrPort{
+		netip.MustParseAddrPort("10.0.0.1:4242"),
+		netip.MustParseAddrPort("[fd00::2]:4242"),
+		netip.MustParseAddrPort("[fd00::3]:4242"),
+		netip.MustParseAddrPort("10.0.0.4:4242"),
+	}
+	for i, dst := range dsts {
+		pkt := append(b.Reserve(8)[:0], byte(i+1))
+		b.Commit(pkt, dst, uint32(100+i))
+	}
+
+	written, err := b.Flush()
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("Flush: %v", err)
+	}
+	if written != 2 {
+		t.Errorf("written = %d, want 2", written)
+	}
+	want := []Failure{{101, dsts[1], errNoRoute}, {102, dsts[2], errNoRoute}}
+	if got := b.Failures(); !slices.Equal(got, want) {
+		t.Errorf("failures = %v, want %v", got, want)
+	}
+
+	// Tags do not leak into the next flush
+	b.Commit(append(b.Reserve(8)[:0], 2), dsts[0], 7)
+	if _, err := b.Flush(); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("Flush: %v", err)
+	}
+	if want := []Failure{{7, dsts[0], errNoRoute}}; !slices.Equal(b.Failures(), want) {
+		t.Errorf("second flush failures = %v, want %v", b.Failures(), want)
+	}
+
+	// A clean flush forgets the last one's failures
+	b.Commit(append(b.Reserve(8)[:0], 1), dsts[0], 8)
+	if _, err := b.Flush(); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("Flush: %v", err)
+	}
+	if got := b.Failures(); len(got) != 0 {
+		t.Errorf("clean flush failures = %v, want none", got)
+	}
+}
diff --git a/udp/conn.go b/udp/conn.go
index 62806569..dfee6253 100644
--- a/udp/conn.go
+++ b/udp/conn.go
@@ -41,8 +41,9 @@ type Conn interface {
 	//
 	// Returns the number of packets successfully written. A destination the kernel rejects costs only
 	// its own packet, so a short count means some peers were undeliverable, not that the batch failed.
+	// failed, when not nil, is called with the index of every packet a destination cost us and why.
 	// Not safe for concurrent use on the same Conn.
-	WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error)
+	WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, failed func(i int, err error)) (int, error)
 	// ReloadConfig applies the listen settings that can change, r is nil at startup
 	ReloadConfig(c *config.C, r *config.Reload)
 	SupportsMultipleReaders() bool
@@ -66,7 +67,7 @@ func (NoopConn) SupportsMultipleReaders() bool {
 func (NoopConn) WriteTo(_ []byte, _ netip.AddrPort) error {
 	return nil
 }
-func (NoopConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, _ []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
+func (NoopConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, _ []netip.AddrPort, _ func(int, error)) (int, error) {
 	return len(bufs), nil
 }
 func (NoopConn) ReloadConfig(_ *config.C, _ *config.Reload) {
diff --git a/udp/udp_darwin.go b/udp/udp_darwin.go
index 516e5d7b..090217e3 100644
--- a/udp/udp_darwin.go
+++ b/udp/udp_darwin.go
@@ -139,7 +139,7 @@ func (u *StdConn) WriteTo(b []byte, ap netip.AddrPort) error {
 	}
 }
 
-func (u *StdConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
+func (u *StdConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, failed func(i int, err error)) (int, error) {
 	// An un-sendable destination costs its own packet, never the ones behind it in the batch.
 	// TODO: WriteTo maps EWOULDBLOCK to an error, so a full send buffer
 	// silently drops the rest of a burst (linux blocks instead). Poll for
@@ -150,6 +150,9 @@ func (u *StdConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error)
 			written++
 		} else {
 			u.l.Debug("failed to write packet in batch", "udpAddr", addrs[i], "error", err)
+			if failed != nil {
+				failed(i, err)
+			}
 		}
 	}
 	return written, nil
diff --git a/udp/udp_generic.go b/udp/udp_generic.go
index 54f00ad2..e5d82f29 100644
--- a/udp/udp_generic.go
+++ b/udp/udp_generic.go
@@ -44,7 +44,7 @@ func (u *GenericConn) WriteTo(b []byte, addr netip.AddrPort) error {
 	return err
 }
 
-func (u *GenericConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
+func (u *GenericConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, failed func(i int, err error)) (int, error) {
 	// An un-sendable destination costs its own packet, never the ones behind it in the batch.
 	written := 0
 	for i, b := range bufs {
@@ -52,6 +52,9 @@ func (u *GenericConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, er
 			written++
 		} else {
 			u.l.Debug("failed to write packet in batch", "udpAddr", addrs[i], "error", err)
+			if failed != nil {
+				failed(i, err)
+			}
 		}
 	}
 	return written, nil
diff --git a/udp/udp_linux.go b/udp/udp_linux.go
index f9987341..93bcb33e 100644
--- a/udp/udp_linux.go
+++ b/udp/udp_linux.go
@@ -358,8 +358,8 @@ func sendto(fd int, b []byte, addr netip.AddrPort, isV4 bool) error {
 
 // WriteBatch sends bufs via sendmmsg(2), coalescing same-destination runs into UDP-GSO superpackets when supported.
 // See batchWriter in udp_linux_writebatch.go for the mechanics.
-func (u *StdConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
-	return u.bw.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+func (u *StdConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, failed func(i int, err error)) (int, error) {
+	return u.bw.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, failed)
 }
 
 // writeSockaddr encodes addr into buf (which must be at least SizeofSockaddrInet6 bytes).
diff --git a/udp/udp_linux_fixes_test.go b/udp/udp_linux_fixes_test.go
index ab8ae18f..ac5d7d95 100644
--- a/udp/udp_linux_fixes_test.go
+++ b/udp/udp_linux_fixes_test.go
@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@
 package udp
 
 import (
+	"errors"
 	"fmt"
 	"log/slog"
 	"net"
@@ -96,13 +97,22 @@ func TestWriteBatchBadFamilyDeliversOthers(t *testing.T) {
 	bufs := [][]byte{[]byte("AAA"), []byte("BBB"), []byte("CCC")}
 	addrs := []netip.AddrPort{good, bad, good}
 
-	n, err := sender.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+	var failed []int
+	n, err := sender.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, func(i int, err error) {
+		if !IsUnreachable(err) {
+			t.Errorf("packet %d failed with %v, want an unreachable error", i, err)
+		}
+		failed = append(failed, i)
+	})
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("WriteBatch returned error, want nil (bad dest should be isolated): %v", err)
 	}
 	if n != 2 {
 		t.Errorf("WriteBatch wrote %d packets, want 2 of 3 (the bad-family dest is the only casualty)", n)
 	}
+	if want := []int{1}; !slices.Equal(failed, want) {
+		t.Errorf("failed reported %v, want %v", failed, want)
+	}
 
 	got := map[string]bool{}
 	rx.SetReadDeadline(time.Now().Add(2 * time.Second))
@@ -154,7 +164,7 @@ func TestWriteBatchUnreachableDestDeliversOthers(t *testing.T) {
 	addrs := []netip.AddrPort{good, good, bad, good, good}
 
 	// The bad destination is reported, but only after every other packet has been attempted.
-	if _, err := sender.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs); err == nil {
+	if _, err := sender.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil); err == nil {
 		t.Log("WriteBatch returned nil; kernel accepted the reserved address, delivery assertions still apply")
 	}
 
@@ -376,7 +386,7 @@ func TestWriteBatchPartialSendRewind(t *testing.T) {
 				return accept, nil
 			}
 
-			written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+			written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil)
 			if err != nil {
 				t.Fatalf("WriteBatch: %v", err)
 			}
@@ -429,13 +439,22 @@ func TestWriteBatchSkipUnroutableRunAccounting(t *testing.T) {
 				return accept, nil
 			}
 
-			written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+			var failed []int
+			written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, func(i int, err error) {
+				if !IsUnreachable(err) {
+					t.Errorf("packet %d failed with %v, want an unreachable error", i, err)
+				}
+				failed = append(failed, i)
+			})
 			if err != nil {
 				t.Fatalf("WriteBatch: %v", err)
 			}
 			if written != 4 {
 				t.Errorf("written = %d, want 4 (the unroutable run is the only casualty)", written)
 			}
+			if want := []int{2}; !slices.Equal(failed, want) {
+				t.Errorf("failed reported %v, want %v", failed, want)
+			}
 			wantTags := []byte{1, 2, 4, 5}
 			if len(wire) != len(wantTags) {
 				t.Fatalf("wire got %d packets, want %d (dup or loss around the skip)", len(wire), len(wantTags))
@@ -486,13 +505,23 @@ func TestWriteBatchMidChunkRejectResumes(t *testing.T) {
 		}
 	}
 
-	written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+	var failed []int
+	written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, func(i int, err error) {
+		if !errors.Is(err, unix.EPERM) {
+			t.Errorf("packet %d failed with %v, want EPERM", i, err)
+		}
+		failed = append(failed, i)
+	})
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("WriteBatch: %v", err)
 	}
 	if written != 3 {
 		t.Errorf("written = %d, want 3 (B's rejected run is the only casualty)", written)
 	}
+	// Every packet in B's run is reported, not just the entry
+	if want := []int{2, 3}; !slices.Equal(failed, want) {
+		t.Errorf("failed reported %v, want %v", failed, want)
+	}
 	wantTags := []byte{1, 2, 5}
 	if len(wire) != len(wantTags) {
 		t.Fatalf("wire got %d packets, want %d (dup or loss around the mid-chunk reject)", len(wire), len(wantTags))
@@ -543,7 +572,7 @@ func TestWriteBatchMidChunkEIODisablesGSOWithoutDup(t *testing.T) {
 		}
 	}
 
-	written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+	written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("WriteBatch: %v", err)
 	}
@@ -571,7 +600,7 @@ func TestWriteBatchZeroProgress(t *testing.T) {
 	w.sendFn = func(start, n int) (int, error) { return 0, nil }
 	bufs := [][]byte{make([]byte, 100)}
 	addrs := []netip.AddrPort{netip.MustParseAddrPort("127.0.0.1:4242")}
-	if _, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs); err == nil {
+	if _, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil); err == nil {
 		t.Fatal("WriteBatch = nil error on zero progress, want error")
 	}
 }
@@ -597,7 +626,7 @@ func TestWriteBatchEIODisablesGSOAndReplays(t *testing.T) {
 		return n, nil
 	}
 
-	written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+	written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("WriteBatch: %v", err)
 	}
@@ -674,7 +703,7 @@ func TestGSOEngagesOnLoopback(t *testing.T) {
 		addrs[i] = dst
 	}
 
-	written, err := sc.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+	written, err := sc.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("WriteBatch: %v", err)
 	}
diff --git a/udp/udp_linux_offloads_test.go b/udp/udp_linux_offloads_test.go
index 80648ca0..53e4659a 100644
--- a/udp/udp_linux_offloads_test.go
+++ b/udp/udp_linux_offloads_test.go
@@ -86,7 +86,7 @@ func TestWriteBatchOffloadsDisabledScripted(t *testing.T) {
 		addrs[i] = dst
 	}
 
-	written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+	written, err := w.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("WriteBatch: %v", err)
 	}
@@ -163,7 +163,7 @@ func TestOffloadsDisabledOnLoopback(t *testing.T) {
 		addrs[i] = dst
 	}
 
-	written, err := sc.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs)
+	written, err := sc.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("WriteBatch: %v", err)
 	}
diff --git a/udp/udp_linux_writebatch.go b/udp/udp_linux_writebatch.go
index bd846629..a34900d5 100644
--- a/udp/udp_linux_writebatch.go
+++ b/udp/udp_linux_writebatch.go
@@ -190,8 +190,8 @@ func parseRelease(r string) (major, minor int) {
 // its packets are dropped and the rest of the chunk resumes in place.
 //
 // Returns the number of packets sent. An error means the call itself failed.
-// A short count means some destinations were undeliverable.
-func (w *batchWriter) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
+// A short count means some destinations were undeliverable, failed hears about each of their packets.
+func (w *batchWriter) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, failed func(i int, err error)) (int, error) {
 	if len(bufs) != len(addrs) {
 		return 0, fmt.Errorf("WriteBatch: len(bufs)=%d != len(addrs)=%d", len(bufs), len(addrs))
 	}
@@ -233,6 +233,7 @@ func (w *batchWriter) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, er
 				if w.l.Enabled(context.Background(), slog.LevelDebug) {
 					w.l.Debug("skipping unroutable batch destination", "udpAddr", addrs[i], "packets", runLen, "error", err)
 				}
+				reportFailed(failed, i, i+runLen, err)
 				i += runLen
 				continue
 			}
@@ -300,12 +301,23 @@ func (w *batchWriter) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, er
 					"gso", w.gsoSupported,
 				)
 			}
+			reportFailed(failed, w.entryEnd[done]-w.entryPkts[done], w.entryEnd[done], serr)
 			done++
 		}
 	}
 	return written, nil
 }
 
+// reportFailed tells failed, if anyone is listening, that every packet in bufs[start:end] was lost to err
+func reportFailed(failed func(i int, err error), start, end int, err error) {
+	if failed == nil {
+		return
+	}
+	for i := start; i < end; i++ {
+		failed(i, err)
+	}
+}
+
 // planRun returns the length of the run starting at start and its segment
 // size (len(bufs[start])). A run of length 1 carries no UDP_SEGMENT cmsg
 // and is sent as a plain datagram; without GSO support planRun always returns 1.
diff --git a/udp/udp_linux_writebatch_alloc_test.go b/udp/udp_linux_writebatch_alloc_test.go
index 190fd90b..a8a1a6fc 100644
--- a/udp/udp_linux_writebatch_alloc_test.go
+++ b/udp/udp_linux_writebatch_alloc_test.go
@@ -80,11 +80,11 @@ func TestWriteBatchNoAllocs(t *testing.T) {
 
 			var werr error
 			// Warm-up outside the measured runs.
-			if _, err := tx.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs); err != nil {
+			if _, err := tx.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil); err != nil {
 				t.Fatalf("WriteBatch warm-up: %v", err)
 			}
 			allocs := testing.AllocsPerRun(100, func() {
-				if _, err := tx.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs); err != nil {
+				if _, err := tx.WriteBatch(bufs, addrs, nil); err != nil {
 					werr = err
 				}
 			})
diff --git a/udp/udp_rio_windows.go b/udp/udp_rio_windows.go
index 36ae2040..3c0b0a38 100644
--- a/udp/udp_rio_windows.go
+++ b/udp/udp_rio_windows.go
@@ -319,7 +319,7 @@ func (u *RIOConn) WriteTo(buf []byte, ip netip.AddrPort) error {
 	return winrio.SendEx(u.rq, dataBuffer, 1, nil, addressBuffer, nil, nil, 0, 0)
 }
 
-func (u *RIOConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
+func (u *RIOConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, failed func(i int, err error)) (int, error) {
 	// An un-sendable destination costs its own packet, never the ones behind it in the batch.
 	written := 0
 	for i, b := range bufs {
@@ -327,6 +327,9 @@ func (u *RIOConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error)
 			written++
 		} else {
 			u.l.Debug("failed to write packet in batch", "udpAddr", addrs[i], "error", err)
+			if failed != nil {
+				failed(i, err)
+			}
 		}
 	}
 	return written, nil
diff --git a/udp/udp_tester.go b/udp/udp_tester.go
index e556ce9e..2a7340cf 100644
--- a/udp/udp_tester.go
+++ b/udp/udp_tester.go
@@ -217,13 +217,16 @@ func (u *TesterConn) WriteTo(b []byte, addr netip.AddrPort) error {
 		return nil
 	}
 }
-func (u *TesterConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort) (int, error) {
+func (u *TesterConn) WriteBatch(bufs [][]byte, addrs []netip.AddrPort, failed func(i int, err error)) (int, error) {
 	written := 0
 	for i, b := range bufs {
 		if err := u.WriteTo(b, addrs[i]); err == nil {
 			written++
 		} else {
 			u.l.Debug("failed to write packet in batch", "udpAddr", addrs[i], "error", err)
+			if failed != nil {
+				failed(i, err)
+			}
 		}
 	}
 	return written, nil