Let a group share the info API too, and serve it on windows

The info API is for other programs on the host, and on unix the only
setting between "the user nebula runs as" and "everyone" was a manual
chgrp that the next bind undid; on windows it was not served at all,
because which accounts a pipe admits had not been decided. The control
socket's `group` decides it, and the info API takes the same key.

- `local_api.info.group`: the socket is handed to the group at 0660
  unless `socket_mode` says otherwise, and a mode that gives a named
  group nothing is refused with the mode that would
- windows: served on a named pipe, the group an ACE on it as on the
  control pipe; the e2e test's helpers dial unix sockets, so it still
  skips there
- a changed group or mode on a reload is applied to the socket in place

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5.1 <noreply@anthropic.com>

e2e/info_api_test.go

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ import (
 // established with.
 func TestIdentityOverTheInfoAPI(t *testing.T) {
 	if runtime.GOOS == "windows" {
-		t.Skip("the info API is not served on windows")
+		t.Skip("the test's HTTP helpers dial unix sockets; on windows the info API is a named pipe")
 	}
 
 	ca, _, caKey, _ := cert_test.NewTestCaCert(cert.Version2, cert.Curve_CURVE25519, time.Now(), time.Now().Add(10*time.Minute), nil, nil, []string{})