Do not warn about local address failures on every update

localAddrs runs inside every SendUpdate, which fires on lighthouse.interval
and again on every network change via RebindUDPServer. Logging the failure
there meant a persistent failure warned every interval for the life of the
process, once per failing interface.

collectLocalAddrs now returns its failures instead of logging them, which
keeps it stateless and lets the tests assert on errors rather than log
output. The lighthouse holds the previous error and warns only when it
changes, demoting repeats to Debug, matching how handshake_manager handles
repeated send failures.

lighthouse.go

@@ -40,6 +40,10 @@ type LightHouse struct {
 	// addresses rather than whatever this machine's NICs happen to be. Set it before Start.
 	localAddrsFn func(*LocalAllowList) []netip.Addr
 
+	// lastLocalAddrsErr is the previous localAddrsFn failure. Enumeration runs on every update, so an
+	// unchanged failure is demoted to Debug rather than warning every lighthouse.interval forever.
+	lastLocalAddrsErr atomic.Pointer[string]
+
 	// Local cache of answers from light houses
 	// map of vpn addr to answers
 	addrMap map[netip.Addr]*RemoteList
@@ -112,7 +116,9 @@ func NewLightHouseFromConfig(ctx context.Context, l *slog.Logger, c *config.C, c
 		l:                  l,
 	}
 	h.localAddrsFn = func(al *LocalAllowList) []netip.Addr {
-		return localAddrs(h.l, al)
+		addrs, err := localAddrs(h.l, al)
+		h.logLocalAddrsErr(err)
+		return addrs
 	}
 
 	lighthouses := make([]netip.Addr, 0)
@@ -913,6 +919,26 @@ func (lh *LightHouse) TriggerUpdate() {
 	}
 }
 
+// logLocalAddrsErr reports a localAddrs failure at Warn the first time it is seen and at Debug while
+// it persists unchanged, so a permanent failure does not warn on every update forever.
+func (lh *LightHouse) logLocalAddrsErr(err error) {
+	if err == nil {
+		lh.lastLocalAddrsErr.Store(nil)
+		return
+	}
+
+	msg := err.Error()
+	prev := lh.lastLocalAddrsErr.Swap(&msg)
+	if prev != nil && *prev == msg {
+		if lh.l.Enabled(context.Background(), slog.LevelDebug) {
+			lh.l.Debug("Failed to collect local addresses to advertise", "error", err)
+		}
+		return
+	}
+
+	lh.l.Warn("Failed to collect local addresses to advertise", "error", err)
+}
+
 func (lh *LightHouse) SendUpdate() {
 	var v4 []*V4AddrPort
 	var v6 []*V6AddrPort