upgrade to yaml.v3 (#1148)

* upgrade to yaml.v3

The main nice fix here is that maps unmarshal into `map[string]any`
instead of `map[any]any`, so it cleans things up a bit.

* add config.AsBool

Since yaml.v3 doesn't automatically convert yes to bool now, for
backwards compat

* use type aliases for m

* more cleanup

* more cleanup

* more cleanup

* go mod cleanup

punchy_test.go

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ func TestNewPunchyFromConfig(t *testing.T) {
 	assert.True(t, p.GetPunch())
 
 	// punchy.punch
-	c.Settings["punchy"] = map[interface{}]interface{}{"punch": true}
+	c.Settings["punchy"] = map[string]any{"punch": true}
 	p = NewPunchyFromConfig(l, c)
 	assert.True(t, p.GetPunch())
 
@@ -37,18 +37,18 @@ func TestNewPunchyFromConfig(t *testing.T) {
 	assert.True(t, p.GetRespond())
 
 	// punchy.respond
-	c.Settings["punchy"] = map[interface{}]interface{}{"respond": true}
+	c.Settings["punchy"] = map[string]any{"respond": true}
 	c.Settings["punch_back"] = false
 	p = NewPunchyFromConfig(l, c)
 	assert.True(t, p.GetRespond())
 
 	// punchy.delay
-	c.Settings["punchy"] = map[interface{}]interface{}{"delay": "1m"}
+	c.Settings["punchy"] = map[string]any{"delay": "1m"}
 	p = NewPunchyFromConfig(l, c)
 	assert.Equal(t, time.Minute, p.GetDelay())
 
 	// punchy.respond_delay
-	c.Settings["punchy"] = map[interface{}]interface{}{"respond_delay": "1m"}
+	c.Settings["punchy"] = map[string]any{"respond_delay": "1m"}
 	p = NewPunchyFromConfig(l, c)
 	assert.Equal(t, time.Minute, p.GetRespondDelay())
 }