Support native Golang "fips140" mode (#1696)

Add support for the "fips140" mode of Go:

- https://go.dev/doc/security/fips140
- https://csrc.nist.gov/projects/cryptographic-module-validation-program/certificate/5247

You can build with `make fips140`, see the README changes for more info.

Some differences from the boringcrypto builds:

- We switch to using `go:linkname crypto/tls.aeadAESGCMTLS13`, which gives us the fips implementation for both `boringcrypto` and `fips140` modes. This means we also no longer need `-checklinkname=0`
- Go native `fips140` doesn't need CGO_ENABLED=1
- We decide if we should use the fips140 GCM at runtime, if `fips140.Enabled()` is true. If you use the `make release-fips140`, we build with build tag `fips140enforce` which ensures the binary is running with fips140 enabled and that only P256 / AES-GCM is being used. If you don't want this enforce mode, you can build without the build tag.

noiseutil/cipher_state.go

@@ -40,8 +40,11 @@ type CipherState interface {
 // NewCipherState wraps the post-handshake noise.CipherState in the per-cipher type that matches cipherFunc.
 // cipherFunc must be the same cipher used to build the noise CipherSuite that produced s.
 func NewCipherState(s *noise.CipherState, cipherFunc noise.CipherFunc) CipherState {
+	if cs, ok := s.Cipher().(CipherState); ok {
+		return cs
+	}
 	switch cipherFunc.CipherName() {
-	case CipherAESGCM.CipherName():
+	case noise.CipherAESGCM.CipherName():
 		return NewCipherStateAESGCM(s)
 	case noise.CipherChaChaPoly.CipherName():
 		return NewCipherStateChaChaPoly(s)