hmmmmmm it works i guess maybe

wgstack/conn/errors_linux.go

@@ -0,0 +1,26 @@
+/* SPDX-License-Identifier: MIT
+ *
+ * Copyright (C) 2017-2023 WireGuard LLC. All Rights Reserved.
+ */
+
+package conn
+
+import (
+	"errors"
+	"os"
+
+	"golang.org/x/sys/unix"
+)
+
+func errShouldDisableUDPGSO(err error) bool {
+	var serr *os.SyscallError
+	if errors.As(err, &serr) {
+		// EIO is returned by udp_send_skb() if the device driver does not have
+		// tx checksumming enabled, which is a hard requirement of UDP_SEGMENT.
+		// See:
+		// https://git.kernel.org/pub/scm/docs/man-pages/man-pages.git/tree/man7/udp.7?id=806eabd74910447f21005160e90957bde4db0183#n228
+		// https://git.kernel.org/pub/scm/linux/kernel/git/torvalds/linux.git/tree/net/ipv4/udp.c?h=v6.2&id=c9c3395d5e3dcc6daee66c6908354d47bf98cb0c#n942
+		return serr.Err == unix.EIO
+	}
+	return false
+}