hmmmmmm it works i guess maybe

wgstack/conn/gso_linux.go

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+//go:build linux
+
+/* SPDX-License-Identifier: MIT
+ *
+ * Copyright (C) 2017-2023 WireGuard LLC. All Rights Reserved.
+ */
+
+package conn
+
+import (
+	"fmt"
+	"unsafe"
+
+	"golang.org/x/sys/unix"
+)
+
+const (
+	sizeOfGSOData = 2
+)
+
+// getGSOSize parses control for UDP_GRO and if found returns its GSO size data.
+func getGSOSize(control []byte) (int, error) {
+	var (
+		hdr  unix.Cmsghdr
+		data []byte
+		rem  = control
+		err  error
+	)
+
+	for len(rem) > unix.SizeofCmsghdr {
+		hdr, data, rem, err = unix.ParseOneSocketControlMessage(rem)
+		if err != nil {
+			return 0, fmt.Errorf("error parsing socket control message: %w", err)
+		}
+		if hdr.Level == unix.SOL_UDP && hdr.Type == unix.UDP_GRO && len(data) >= sizeOfGSOData {
+			var gso uint16
+			copy(unsafe.Slice((*byte)(unsafe.Pointer(&gso)), sizeOfGSOData), data[:sizeOfGSOData])
+			return int(gso), nil
+		}
+	}
+	return 0, nil
+}
+
+// setGSOSize sets a UDP_SEGMENT in control based on gsoSize. It leaves existing
+// data in control untouched.
+func setGSOSize(control *[]byte, gsoSize uint16) {
+	existingLen := len(*control)
+	avail := cap(*control) - existingLen
+	space := unix.CmsgSpace(sizeOfGSOData)
+	if avail < space {
+		return
+	}
+	*control = (*control)[:cap(*control)]
+	gsoControl := (*control)[existingLen:]
+	hdr := (*unix.Cmsghdr)(unsafe.Pointer(&(gsoControl)[0]))
+	hdr.Level = unix.SOL_UDP
+	hdr.Type = unix.UDP_SEGMENT
+	hdr.SetLen(unix.CmsgLen(sizeOfGSOData))
+	copy((gsoControl)[unix.CmsgLen(0):], unsafe.Slice((*byte)(unsafe.Pointer(&gsoSize)), sizeOfGSOData))
+	*control = (*control)[:existingLen+space]
+}
+
+// gsoControlSize returns the recommended buffer size for pooling UDP
+// offloading control data.
+var gsoControlSize = unix.CmsgSpace(sizeOfGSOData)