gso and gro with uring on send/receive for udp

udp/config.go

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+package udp
+
+import "sync/atomic"
+
+var disableUDPCsum atomic.Bool
+
+// SetDisableUDPCsum controls whether IPv4 UDP sockets opt out of kernel
+// checksum calculation via SO_NO_CHECK. Only applicable on platforms that
+// support the option (Linux). IPv6 always keeps the checksum enabled.
+func SetDisableUDPCsum(disable bool) {
+	disableUDPCsum.Store(disable)
+}
+
+func udpChecksumDisabled() bool {
+	return disableUDPCsum.Load()
+}