fancy blocking writes

wait for goroutines to finish and for tun to actually be closed

remove yellow squiggles

nbio for tun

bugz

Remove more os.Exit calls and give a more reliable wait for stop function

checkpt

tun_linux.go: stdlib too slow, but can't use blocking IO and clean shutdown

control.go

@@ -6,7 +6,6 @@ import (
 	"net/netip"
 	"os"
 	"os/signal"
-	"sync"
 	"syscall"
 
 	"github.com/sirupsen/logrus"